After the last year and the struggles I've ran into while trying to write and publish I've decided to start a new category. Roughing it out. The troubles and thoughts of things I've been facing, that might be some of the same challenges you run up against. I don't know if anything that works for me will help you, but I hope so. The biggest thing I can think of right now - Is just to keep on working at it.
Don't give up!
Even if it's a little a day, keep going.
You will never reach you goals if you don't try. 
Eleanor Roosevelt said:
I takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.
No more just wishing. Set your goal, plan and make it happen!
 


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